Bite-Sized Philosophy | Childhood
Kahlil Gibran on Why Parents Don’t Own Their Children
The Relationship Between Parent and Child Doesn’t Have to Be One of Ownership
Kahlil Gibran’s beautiful work of poetic prose, The Prophet, has been beloved for generations. The story is exquisitely simple: Almustafa, a fictional prophet who has lived for twelve years in the city of Orphalese, finally has the option to return to the isle of his birth.
The people of Orphalese have come to love him and are saddened to see him go. To cope with the pain of his departure, the town seeress suggests that before he embarks across the sea, Almustafa shares some of the truth he has come to know about the time between birth and death.
When he can’t think of what to discuss, the crowd makes suggestions. They ask him to speak about love, giving, houses, crime and punishment, reason and passion, freedom, self-knowledge, etc. Each topic is given its own mini-chapter and contains simple verses packed with profound ideas.
The Prophet’s third discussion centers around children.
Your Children Are Not Yours
Of all the directions the prophet could have taken a conversation on parenting, children, and…
